Also, you want to be with someone who knows what sacrificial love is and lives it out in a relationship with you, who treasures you and treasures your love; who appreciates you, loves you and respects you… and even when something points to the opposite of that - knows your heart well enough to know that you didn’t mean to be unloving or disrespectful etc. The right person will also trust their relationship with you to God, and God will lead them to you through the Holy Spirit. Your first home is in God, your second home is in yourself and then the person you are meant to be with. Your 3rd home is a physical place to thrive, and enjoy life together. Lastly, remember everyone has baggage… the person that is meant for you may need to work through part of that before they make a commitment to you. The Holy Spirit will continue to lead and guide. The Holy Spirit will open their heart to be the person God is calling them to be, in relation to you. Also, the flame of the Holy Spirit in True Love can never be extinguished… it just continues to grow until you are with the person God has chosen for you. This growth is not a growth that is superficial or immature… this is a growth that is growth of love in a deep and abiding way, but also one that is attracted to you physically, and craves deeper intimacy with you on every level. This, in itself is part of the maturing process of true love, and how you know love is true and true love. And even when they are far away from you… they will be reminded of you always and still crave deeper intimacy with you on every level (physically, sexually, emotionally, spiritually, psychologically, etc)… and you will be unforgettable to them, to the point, that they can no longer ignore how the Holy Spirit is leading them towards you, and the two of you together. This is also part of being in love and characteristics of True Love…. so is your same affection and calling to deeper intimacy with them.. this is a mutual calling inspired by the Holy Spirit…. even if sometimes things do not work out as planned (God knows sometimes the evening can be ruined or the mood can change or be ruined in a given day or evening etc.)…. True Love always triumphs over the trials and tribulations and draws the two closer together in heart space and head space first… then physically etc.
